Carpe Diem 一期一会: April 2010

Friday, April 30, 2010

School Survival

Japan Junior & High school hierarchy chart

我爱女王力

女王力经典：

我们要像海绵一样不断的快速吸收成长

Believe

男人越老约有魅力，女人越老越没自信，难道女人的价值就只有建立在青春上吗？

自信是永不退色的美丽。

女人会失去魅力，自信，不是因为变老，而是自卑和嫉妒让你变得丑陋。

一个女人因该岁月的镇长中获得成长，变得根好，而不是恐惧着自己的容貌和大脑会随着年龄镇长而退步。美是来自于生活上的磨练，个性的智慧与心灵上的富足。

当一个女人年纪越大，你越能从他的长相看出她的个性，因为相是由心生。

懂得用正面力量，少批评自己，少批评别人，多微笑，爱自己，你会越来越美丽。

Positioning

如果你把自己当代销品，当然总会吸引贪小便宜的男人。

如果你把自己当过期品，自然会遇到看商标买新鲜货的男人。

如果你把自己当瑕疵品，当然男人会用瑕疵品看轻你。

如果你强迫推销，可能会遇到一时冲动事后返悔的人。

Responsible

难道他创了你的心，就要对你的未来由所负责吗？说得难听一点，你不过是相当永远的受害者。

对自己负责，绝对比找到愿意对你负责的男人还要重要！

找到饭票，说不定会跳票，拥有自己的饭票，才是最有保障的。

Glory

女已不为悦已者荣，女为已而容。我们可以爱自己不用等着被爱，我们主宰自己，爱自己，尊重自己，做自己灵魂的主人。不灌水，不伪装，更不嫌弃自己。

Love It Right

恋爱因该是两个人互相进步的，也就是说两个人是正面影响，在一起可以一起成长，一起鼓励，一起变好，这样的感情才有意义。

不要为爱模糊自己，急着去扮演他喜欢的样子，最后搞得自己越来越没自信，因为她已经忘了她自己是什么样子了。如果只要改变自己你就会更爱我，只要有人愿意为你量生订做你就会喜欢，那么每一个女人都可以取代我，你又何必跟我在一起呢？不要当一个任何人都可以取代的女人。

一个爱你的人，应该是给你一片天空，而不是牢房。爱情不是用来绑架对方的工具，也不是你拿来绑架自己的理由。

Centre of Focus

甜点不好吃，就换下一道。男人不好，就换下一个。为爱放弃一切，只要爱情的女人，永远只有而饿死的份。当你空虚，饥饿，寂寞时，先把自己的生活填饱，再来谈恋爱。永远记得爱情不是你的生命的主菜，只是一道甜点。

Beauty Up

谁说充实内在就不必打理外表？谁说重视外表就一定没有内在？这又不是但选题，如果两个都有，既不是跟好。

女人要变美，真的要从爱自己，对自己有信心，对人要有正面的能量，以及心地善良为基础。内外都要兼顾，懂得保养自己，不要挥霍青春，夜要懂得谈一场有益身心的恋爱。内在美与大脑的智慧才是能让你经得起时间考验的美丽。

Thankful

如果你被批过腿，你一辈子都会感谢第三者，因为他们才是你的贵人。

Reflection

不要太在意对方而忽略了自己。当你想找个好的对象前，先把自己变成一位好对象吧。

Getting Better

有人说，每个交过的男朋友就像一面镜子，他让你在恋爱中跟了解自己是个这么样的人。他能让你他到真正的自己，与你从来不了解的另一面。我们在交往的过程中，学会面对自己，也学会成长。

换个角度，你要谢谢那些辜负你的人，伤害你的人，每个旧情人的任务，就是要你成为一个根棒的人。况且塞翁不失马,焉之何得非福呢？

Respect

不要怕那些嫉妒你的人，给你压力的人，好好做好自己，当你可以成为一位工作生活和外表都一流的女生，男人以及社会都会懂得尊敬你。

当你尊重自己的价值，就没有人可以轻易得用他的价值观影响你。

Attitude

好运或许是天生的，但好命靠的是你后天努力。人各有命，羡慕但不嫉妒，也不想变成他们。因为我从来不觉得自己的命不好。好命是一种心态，一种生活的态度，自要相信自己好命，自然而然，我们会让自己过得跟好，越来越好运，越来越好命。好命是一种正面的能量和态度，相信自己值得过好日子的人，才会懂得爱自己，让自己跟好，珍惜生命中美好的人事物，并有能力让自己往好命的方向迈进。相信我的未来一定会更好。

浪费时间在抱怨上，不如赶快跨越。成功的人，不会浪费时间在抱怨人生的不满，不会花时间在抱怨为何上帝不平等，自己的人生为何不顺，为何被伤害，为何倒霉，为何小人很多，为何不快乐。。因为他们懂得在任何情况下让自己去快乐，去进步，去让自己的人生变得根好的方法。

了解自己的人生，用自己的方式，步伐努力前进，努力让自己的生活变得更好。

你的人生你自己决定！

女王著

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Driving Class

$45 for 90min Auto car driving class.. Phew Ex!

$45*30weeks= around 1.4k if i am lucky to pass on first try

That would mean less dine out and chill out session with bud :(

Most workers find drinking more tiring than overtime

An article base on typical Korea/Japan corporate cultural

Worker had an average of 2.2 drinking parties per week (How they still manage to crawl to office the next day?)

They also had overtime duties 2.3 times a week, which last for three hours on average. (So 2.2+2.3=4.6... They OT/out for drink 4.6 time a week on average!)

Company drinking parties in Korea (Japan as well) are rather regarded as a prolongation of teamwork and therefore a social must rather than an entertainment option.(Agree, it will be a social MUST else one might be isolate politically.. Chiaamm leh.. nowaday we worker not only gotta perform in work but also become social escort after work.... *Ji Pai Tan*)

Gaga Tweet

Precious Present

It happen all the time.
We reminisce the past, make provision for the future, but overlook the present.
How strange, considering the fact that we are made of the past, and it is where the future begin.

Company Structure

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

What's The Husband Up To?

The husband caught red handed holding other women's hand in office!! ARghhhhhhh :p

40 Reasons Why I Wont Leave Singapore

I give you 40 Reasons Why I Wont Leave Singapore

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Red Star Restaurant 红星酒家

Finally paid a visit to this Red Star Restaurant 红星酒家 after so much tribute Pokka had given to them..

Old Hong Kong ambiance with dim sum auntie pushing dim sum cart around

There is no menu in this place. You have to stay alert 醒目and wink at the dim sum auntie when you see one nearby.. haha *Joke* ... The aunties will push the cart around, asking table by table if they want any of the variety on their cart... Nice service, friendly auntie, good sales person, so good that we over ordered!

Chinese style Kimchi, we call it "Ah Zha"

I gotta point this out.. this "duno what issit called" thing is literally an oil sponge.. i taste nothing but oil upon my bite! Eeek *the oil was not hot enough when they fry this thing* Dont order!

They made their mango pudding the way i like.. It's the taste i remembered, the one my mum used to bring me when i was a kid, a restaurant somewhere behind Yishun bus interchange, a memory of my childhood...

Didn't get to try their signature Egg tart, maybe next time.

Not all their dim sum are delish, but their ambiance wins it all. Nice to have a place that didn't catch up with time, take a trip down memory lane may you have time. Be prepared to get at least 30 to 40 min in queue..

Italiannies Free Pasta

Free pasta given out on Orchard road..

Together with what i have in my kitchen...

Tadah... that's my hommy cheese pasta!

Bring this back and get free pasta! @_@ I like this marketing idea..

Lawry's Prime Rib

Visit Lawry's the Prime Rib people at their new premises Mandarin Gallery

Nice lunch with the Kohs

Medium rare Singapore cut for all... Lucky we stayed conservative and took this "light for lunch" portion... I cant never finish my portion, so are others... :) We weight a kg or two more stepping out of the restuarant...

Nua

I WISH! @_@ So many report to rush... I thought i can go on a ORD mode liao.. boh leh.. *Sian-ing*

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Goal

A goal without a plan is just a wish

My Tiger and Me

I enjoy drinking alone :)

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Singapore Island: Pulau Semakau

Confirm my half day tour (6-12pm) to Pulau Semakau $55 (ferry ticket) with National Environment Agency on 1st May. Anyone interested please PM me for contact for the PIC asap to get slot :)